If unpleasant things happen in our daily life, we immediately pay attention to them but do not notice other pleasant things. We experience these as normal or usual. This shows that compassion and affection are part of human nature.
Compassion or love has different levels; some are more mixed than others with desire or attachment. For example, parents' attitudes toward their children contain a mixture of desire and attachment with compassion. The love and compassion between husband and wife, especially at the beginning of marriage when they don't know the deep nature of each other, are on a superficial level.
As soon as the attitude of one partner changes, the attitude of the other becomes opposite to what it was. That kind of love and compassion is more of the nature of attachment. Attachment means some kind of feeling of closeness projected by oneself. In reality, the other side may be very negative, but due to one's own mental attachment and projection, it appears as something nice.
Furthermore, attachment causes one to exaggerate a small good quality and make it appear 100 percent beautiful or 100 percent positive. As soon as the mental attitudes change, that picture completely changes. Therefore, that kind of love and compassion is, rather, attachment.
Choose the word that can replace the word "superficial" in the passage:
In the passage superficial describes a love that stays only at the surface, without knowing the deep nature of the other. The word that best replaces it is surface, since a superficial level is a surface level. Superior means higher in rank, suburban refers to the outskirts of a city, and spurious means false or fake, none of which fits the sense of shallow or surface here. So the right replacement is surface.
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